Live-in or Live-out? A Key Consideration for Household Staff

Maya Pogorzelec • December 11, 2024

When considering a new role within luxury residences, one of the important factors to weigh is the nature of the contract: live-in or live-out.


Both options offer unique advantages, and the best choice ultimately depends on your individual circumstances and priorities.


Here, we take a look at the benefits of each type of contract and the key things to consider when deciding what is right for you.


Live in Positions

The Perks 


Live-in positions offer unparalleled convenience and often come with attractive financial benefits. Accommodation is typically provided, along with utilities and meals, allowing for significant savings and a simplified lifestyle.


With no commute to worry about, you'll have more time and energy to focus on your role and build strong relationships with your employers. Living on the property also allows for a deeper understanding of the household's rhythm and needs, fostering a sense of teamwork and shared purpose.


This immersive experience can be particularly rewarding for those who thrive in a close-knit environment and enjoy being a central part of the household team.




Things to Consider


While live-in roles offer many advantages, it's important to consider the unique lifestyle they entail. Living where you work requires a certain level of adaptability and the ability to maintain professional boundaries.


If you value having your own independent space and clear separation between work and personal time, a live-in position might require some adjustment.



Live-Out Positions

The Perks


Live-out positions offer greater freedom and flexibility to curate your life outside of work. You have the autonomy to choose your own living arrangements, personalise your space, and maintain a distinct separation between your professional and personal life.


This can be particularly appealing for those who enjoy having their own sanctuary to retreat to after a day's work and prefer to maintain a vibrant social life with friends and family.



Things to Consider


With the increased independence of a live-out role comes the responsibility of managing your own household and finances.


You'll need to factor in expenses like rent, utilities, and transportation, especially if the role requires commuting to a more rural location. However, this also allows you to choose a living situation that perfectly complements your lifestyle and preferences.




Making the Right Choice


Ultimately, the choice between a live-in and live-out position is a personal one. Carefully weigh the unique advantages of each option, considering your lifestyle preferences, unique skillset, and career goals.


Should you require guidance in navigating the nuances of these choices within the luxury household staff industry, our experienced consultants at Exclusive Household Cavalry can help.


We are dedicated to assisting you with making an informed decision that aligns with your long-term aspirations and ensures a fulfilling and rewarding career in luxury residences.


Don’t hesitate to contact us today for a confidential discussion regarding your career goals at  info@exclusivehouseholdcavalry.com.



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